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Reflect and Redirect
Deliberate planning is essential to building our ideal musical life. We want to be clear about what we’re aiming for, and have a concrete...

Michelle Monette
Dec 27, 20222 min read


Practice Self-Compassion
"What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself." - Hecato quoted in Seneca's Letters from a Stoic...

Michelle Monette
Dec 19, 20222 min read


We Are All Built to Make Music
Music is a widely appreciated artform, and an important feature in many of our daily lives. It can connect people to themselves and...

Michelle Monette
Dec 11, 20222 min read


Play the Long Game
"Nearly everything awesome takes longer than you think. Get started and don't worry about the clock." - James Clear Getting good at music...

Michelle Monette
Dec 5, 20222 min read


Our Role as Teachers
Teachers are an essential part of anyone’s musical life. Many of us begin our musical journeys by taking lessons with various...

Michelle Monette
Nov 27, 20222 min read


Regain Your Rhythm
“When jarred, unavoidably, by circumstances, revert at once to yourself, and don’t lose the rhythm more than you can help. You’ll have a...

Michelle Monette
Nov 21, 20222 min read


Larks and Owls
Since we are all limited in how much time we have to spend on music, it becomes vital to optimize our musical lives so we are as...

Michelle Monette
Nov 13, 20222 min read


Persist and Persevere
As musicians, we are required to constantly overcome challenges. We face those related directly to our music, like working through a...

Michelle Monette
Nov 6, 20222 min read


Closing the Knowing-Doing Gap
Information is more abundant and easier to access than at any other time in history. Invaluable resources like websites, books, videos,...

Michelle Monette
Oct 30, 20222 min read


Do As You Say
“[T]here are many occasions when words are useless, and only deeds will make a man’s meaning plain; often enough, too, it is easy to...

Michelle Monette
Oct 24, 20222 min read


Do You Know Your "Why"?
Throughout my years of teaching music, I often felt an expectation from some of my students: That I should convince them of why they...

Michelle Monette
Oct 17, 20222 min read


Failure is Nothing to Fear
Ask someone what they fear, and a likely answer will be “failure.” Humans fear failure because of the distress we feel when we fall short...

Michelle Monette
Oct 10, 20222 min read


The Joys of Discipline
Jeff Goldblum was the featured guest on an episode of Gregory Porter’s podcast a few years ago. Though best known for his acting,...

Michelle Monette
Oct 2, 20222 min read


Work Hard, Rest Hard
Seasoned musicians understand the value of hard work. We spend years in the practice room diligently refining our craft by drilling...

Michelle Monette
Sep 25, 20222 min read


There Is No "Key" to Unlocking Music
Advertisements targeted toward aspiring musicians often try to entice potential customers with an impossible promise: “This is the one...

Michelle Monette
Sep 14, 20222 min read


Dancing With Difficulty
Every musician knows how challenging the art and craft of music can be. Learning and practicing something new will stretch you, often...

Michelle Monette
Jul 13, 20221 min read


Tradeoffs
Tradeoffs are an essential part of building a musical life. Being a musician requires a lot of time, focus, and effort, which means...

Michelle Monette
Jun 22, 20222 min read


Mystery is Overrated
Over the years, I’ve often heard musicians explain their lack of desire to learn music in a deeper way as simply wanting to retain...

Michelle Monette
May 22, 20221 min read


Less But Better
I have long said my interest in pursuing so many musical endeavors has been both a blessing and a curse. On one hand, I derive great...

Michelle Monette
May 11, 20222 min read


What If?
If you’re anything like me, you may have found yourself bogged down with a variety of questions I call “the shoulds.” For a musician,...

Michelle Monette
May 2, 20221 min read
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