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Look for Progress, Not Perfection
“Practice makes perfect” is a ubiquitous phrase in the world of music. Whether we hear it from our teachers, our musical heroes, or our...

Michelle Monette
Feb 6, 20232 min read


Give Yourself Fewer Choices
One of the key characteristics of music is the wide variety of potential areas to focus on. There are multiple instruments to learn, many...

Michelle Monette
Jan 29, 20232 min read


The Bright Side of Confusion
A substantial part of any musical journey is the quest for understanding. We recognize how beneficial music comprehension will be for us,...

Michelle Monette
Jan 23, 20232 min read


The Value of Being a Teacher
“And when you say: ‘Give me also a share in these gifts which you have found so helpful,’ I reply that I am anxious to heap all these...

Michelle Monette
Jan 16, 20232 min read


Leading and Lagging Indicators
“Nothing comes from nowhere. Not success. Not inspiration. Not the muses. Not writer’s block. Everything is a lagging indicator. Of...

Michelle Monette
Jan 9, 20232 min read


Look For the Ingredients
When constructing our musical lives and identities, we often draw inspiration from our favourite musicians. Whether we resonate with the...

Michelle Monette
Jan 2, 20232 min read


Practice Self-Compassion
"What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself." - Hecato quoted in Seneca's Letters from a Stoic...

Michelle Monette
Dec 19, 20222 min read


We Are All Built to Make Music
Music is a widely appreciated artform, and an important feature in many of our daily lives. It can connect people to themselves and...

Michelle Monette
Dec 11, 20222 min read


Play the Long Game
"Nearly everything awesome takes longer than you think. Get started and don't worry about the clock." - James Clear Getting good at music...

Michelle Monette
Dec 5, 20222 min read


Regain Your Rhythm
“When jarred, unavoidably, by circumstances, revert at once to yourself, and don’t lose the rhythm more than you can help. You’ll have a...

Michelle Monette
Nov 21, 20222 min read


Persist and Persevere
As musicians, we are required to constantly overcome challenges. We face those related directly to our music, like working through a...

Michelle Monette
Nov 6, 20222 min read


Do As You Say
“[T]here are many occasions when words are useless, and only deeds will make a man’s meaning plain; often enough, too, it is easy to...

Michelle Monette
Oct 24, 20222 min read


Do You Know Your "Why"?
Throughout my years of teaching music, I often felt an expectation from some of my students: That I should convince them of why they...

Michelle Monette
Oct 17, 20222 min read


Failure is Nothing to Fear
Ask someone what they fear, and a likely answer will be “failure.” Humans fear failure because of the distress we feel when we fall short...

Michelle Monette
Oct 10, 20222 min read


The Joys of Discipline
Jeff Goldblum was the featured guest on an episode of Gregory Porter’s podcast a few years ago. Though best known for his acting,...

Michelle Monette
Oct 2, 20222 min read


Work Hard, Rest Hard
Seasoned musicians understand the value of hard work. We spend years in the practice room diligently refining our craft by drilling...

Michelle Monette
Sep 25, 20222 min read


There Is No "Key" to Unlocking Music
Advertisements targeted toward aspiring musicians often try to entice potential customers with an impossible promise: “This is the one...

Michelle Monette
Sep 14, 20222 min read


Dancing With Difficulty
Every musician knows how challenging the art and craft of music can be. Learning and practicing something new will stretch you, often...

Michelle Monette
Jul 13, 20221 min read


Tradeoffs
Tradeoffs are an essential part of building a musical life. Being a musician requires a lot of time, focus, and effort, which means...

Michelle Monette
Jun 22, 20222 min read


Mystery is Overrated
Over the years, I’ve often heard musicians explain their lack of desire to learn music in a deeper way as simply wanting to retain...

Michelle Monette
May 22, 20221 min read
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